Like any phenomenon described on the Internet, the theme of the CMC is developed and commented on by already convinced supporters, anonymous majority, which leaves a lot of room for fantasies and invented stories.
Lucky are those whose spouse plays the role of KH affectionately keeps control of the key. Doubly lucky are those whose KH demands profuse cunnilingus.
At its core is the Keyholder (KH), which holds the key and has full control over caging and caging. The man is consenting, but totally surrenders his sexuality to the KH. KH control levels are highly variable according to reports and cage outings would range from three outings per week to forever. The role of KH in the Tease & Denial must remain something sustained, which requires a lot of investment of time and energy. Also, the attitude of the KH can range from that of accomplice to that of dominatrix.
But through the comments, there are the men whose spouse timidly plays the role of KH or shows no interest in playing this role of guardian of the key.
“My spouse insists on wearing a chastity cage. I don't understand. He is a gentle, caring man and a good father. I want everything to go back to the way it was."
There are spouses who have a very low libido and who do not regularly require cunnilingus, a pleasure so coveted by KHs.
There are also those whose absence of spouse or lack of interest of this one leads them to the solo version of chastity. So cases where the man is caged, but without KH [1]. Although many dispute that it cannot be CMC if the caged has control of his releases, these cases are present on the forums.
So lucky are those whose spouse confidently plays the role of KH and affectionately guards the key. Doubly lucky are those whose KH demands profuse cunnilingus, is confident in their role, wears sexy underwear, has high libido, ruins orgasms and uses Tease & Denial in the right dosage! Hard tests for the caged!
But in many cases, the spouse sees the exercise as a man's fantasy, an additional task, a complicated thing. And it is also not all women who have a strong libido, therefore interested in playing the game and claiming female pleasure, at the risk of forgetting the caged in its cage.
We are therefore very far from being able to apply everything that is advocated on the sites dealing with the CMC. No Tease & Denial, no cunnilingus three times a week, no KH. Nothing!
But in many cases, the spouse sees the exercise as a man's fantasy, an additional task, a complicated thing.
Evenings in comfortable pajamas with a kitten and rabbit-shaped slippers for my spouse, exhausted from work, children, life. So kitty, do you want the key? No my dear, you can keep it!
Houston, we have a problem!
Not much! Solutions exist!
To be continued!
[1] Four out of ten men who practice CMC are single. Reference: “Controlled male sexuality”: key to desire? Maylis Castet.
CHAPTER 2: The difficulties of the CMC
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