I briefly outline the basic principle of classic controlled male chastity (CMC) before later exposing the principles of reasoned CMC. I address myself to the uninitiated, women and men. Several other blogs do lengthy descriptions of controlled male chastity and its principles, and many nuances can be made.
Chastity can be defined by keeping pleasure. The male pleasure is kept by the spouse who holds the key to be consumed at the right time for the couple's pleasure.
The CMC is a practice that must be done as a couple. The man's organ is almost permanently in a cage and the woman keeps the key. The man becomes the caged, the woman the Keyholder (KH). The cage chosen must be of high quality, be comfortable enough to be worn 24/7 for several days in a row and be adapted to the size of the penis at rest. So we want a small cage. Thus, the man no longer has a full erection and it is impossible for him to masturbate alone. The KH then decides when and how the man can enjoy.
The definition of chastity in the Petit Larousse means abstaining from sexual pleasures deemed illicit. Here, the KH controls the pleasure of the male orgasm, it keeps its exclusivity, and prevents the man from obtaining his own satisfaction at any time, for example by masturbating alone, by consuming pornography or even having sex with other women.
Another interesting definition that I prefer, that of chastity can be defined by guard-pleasure. The male pleasure is kept by the spouse who holds the key to be consumed at the right time for the pleasure of the couple.
The KH thus totally controls the sexuality of the caged by preciously keeping the key. It is only she who must decide when to release him, and requests to be released from his chastity cage will only serve to prolong his condition. The term orgasm denial is also used in the field to describe the moment when the KH refuses to grant the caged orgasm when he really wants it. Generally, it controls what the caged can do during an outing. She also makes sure that the moment of freedom, more or less short, is followed by putting the chastity cage back in place. The man thus regains his caged state after the granted orgasm, the moment during which he is probably the least inclined to put the cage back on. The KH can also see to put the cage back in place without the male orgasm having been consummated, thus creating frustration in the man. She thus preserves the desire for orgasm of her caged alone and affirms her absolute control over male pleasure.
The KH thus totally controls the sexuality of the caged by preciously keeping the key.
At first sight, this seems horrible, but according to the participants, the benefits are very present. It is reported that after two or three days in the cage, the man passes a first stage which upsets his sexual habits and that mental well-being sets in. This mixture of frustration and well-being in humans is described by the very contradictory theme of positive frustration.
Generally, after one or two weeks of CMC, the testimonies of women are that the man becomes gentle, loving and very attentive, because the prisoner understands that he must show gentleness and kindness with his spouse to hope for his release.
The effect is also marked by a significant hormonal upheaval in the body of the abstinent man for several days or having significantly reduced the number of orgasms normally achieved. The benefits of CMC are therefore very rapid and the impact is very visible in the couple relationship. It is said that the man becomes less macho, more cerebral. Men and women want more. This is the main attraction of the CMC and this is normally enough to justify the whole exercise.
The application of the CMC is very variable according to each of the couples. Applied in the form of a game a few days or weeks here and there, it is also applied permanently and absolutely for years by others.
Moderate followers will say that their CMC is non-SM (sadomasochism) and integrates the exercise in a simple way into their couple relationship. On the other hand, the hardest KH will want to dominate the caged, submit him, humiliate him, and deprive him of all personal pleasure, with a tendency to add complementary activities that approach BDSM.
CHAPTER 1: Controlled male chastity
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