Positive frustration

An exit from the cage with permission to masturbate is a very classic reward for the caged. The role of the KH is then limited to freeing the caged man, without necessarily participating in his pleasure and which he will often have to give himself alone. The man may feel frustrated at not having more, having had little time to perform before returning to the chastity cage.

Contrary to what one might think at first glance, the encagé derives a form of satisfaction from this frustration created by the KH.

Some tougher KHs will put the cage back on before the caged has even finished running. This is orgasm denial. Other practices are also used when leaving the cage, such as ruined orgasm (coitus without orgasm), Numbing (use of an anesthetic gel and a contraceptive during penetration), Edging ( maintenance of the erection over a long period without ever reaching coitus), timed orgasm (orgasm reached within a very short time with the risk of putting the cage back on without having succeeded) or Milking (prolonged massage prostate). Regardless of the method applied, the idea is that the caged does not fully savor the privilege granted, and thus frustrates him.

Another positive frustration practice for KHs who enjoy penetration is the use of a strapon on the encaged (dildo attached using a harness to the encaged). The caged thus equipped penetrates his spouse without deriving pleasure for him.

Finally, the idea of returning to the cage quickly is a well-known gesture of positive frustration in the CMC. We will see later that the effect of prolactin creates a powerful satiety effect after orgasm in men. It is this same neurotransmitter that explains why the man does not really want to put the cage back on in the minutes following his orgasm. He doesn't really want much anymore! He is in post-coital depression, a well-known state where the man expresses little interest in his partner after orgasm and falls asleep deeply on his cozy pillow.

When the principle is understood and mastered, positive frustration becomes one of the key elements of CMC.

When the KH insists on putting the cage back on quickly when the effect of prolactin is felt, she thus affirms her role which is to control the sexuality of her spouse, and thereby obtains the caged person's consent to submit to it until the next opportunity. Click!

All these notions seek to create frustration in the man, a way for the KH to reassert its absolute control over the sexuality of the caged, and for the caged to submit to it.

Contrary to what one might think at first glance, the encagé derives a form of satisfaction from this frustration created by the KH. Surprisingly he asks for more, finding his satisfaction in all this attention that the KH gives him, the pleasure of giving to his KH and the letting go of his own expectations. When the principle is understood and mastered, positive frustration becomes one of the key elements of CMC.

CHAPTER 1: Controlled male chastity