Introduction

Is male chastity a new way of life? Far from the fantasy and the erotic game of a moment, men agree to put their penises in a cage for long periods of time and hand over the key to their partner, whether by choice or even under the will of their partner.

But why? Whatever the answer, many blogs take it seriously and offer the practice of female partner-controlled male chastity with different approaches.

Controlled male chastity, or CMC, is the act by which the spouse puts her spouse's penis in a cage using a small accessory fitted with a padlock and keeps the key. The caging is planned 24/7 on the short, medium or long term, and the exits from the cage are entirely controlled by the spouse. Keeper of the key, she thus fully controls her spouse's sexuality, and this for several reasons: to control her fickle side, because she caught her spouse consuming pornography, because she finds her spouse too insistent on the frequency of sexual relations with penetration and that she wants to put her pleasure first, or even more simply because it is the wish expressed by the spouse to see his spouse take control of her sexuality.

So nothing to do with caging for a few minutes for an erotic game. And not necessarily associated with sadomasochism (SM), or even BDSM (Bondage, discipline, domination-submission, sadomasochism). This CMC is then said to be non-SM. The interpretation of “no SM” is however variable according to the level of control that the spouse wants to exercise with the management of the key and the conditions of release. For many, however, CMC is still a game of DS (dominance-submission) that can be played out in varying degrees of intensity in the dominated and dominant roles. Because there is no doubt, taking control of the male organ gives the keyholder a lot of power.

For others, the CMC game can be exercised without domination-submission, or at least at a level that respects the fundamental values ​​of the couple, as I will explain in the reasoned CMC. There is therefore not a single CMC, but a multitude of levels of application of the CMC.

This Little Guide to Reasoned Male Chastity aims to describe a somewhat different version of male chastity as seen on forums, but still present. The reasoned CMC tries to set the benchmarks for a CMC that is accessible, fun, applied with little challenges and completely dissociated from the grip of BDSM and all the associated fantasies often unpleasant to the ears of the majority of women and of many men.