Here is a striking example. I carried the cage during a week-long trip to Cuba, where my wife and I were alone. Our two daughters, now grown teenagers, remained in the country under the watchful eye of Aunt Katy. This is one of my finest examples of reasoned, simple, loving CMC without real expectations.
The CMC has taken on its full meaning as a pleasure guard, my sexuality being entirely preserved during this dream week in the right of my spouse's gaze. The exercise was planned with the idea of ​​going to rest in the sun. Our goals were very simple.
First it was understood that the caging period would be from arrival at the hotel until departure, with the prohibition to ask to remove the cage. A one-night break was granted. I promised to give her a lot of attention to make her happy and desirable.
For my spouse, she had to play the role of KH and remain firm and tough on wearing the cage. The Tease & Denial is done its way, without stress. There was no obligation to have sex, or even to cum for me. The pleasure was all hers. No domination-submission games. She had all the power to hold the chastity cage in place for the duration of the trip.
So total control of my sexuality by my spouse for seven days in the sun. Being together for the whole week in the sun has made her, in her own way, a very good KH.
The Tease & Denial was done simply, like how to make every sunscreen slathering operation an ordeal for me, or finding it fun to discreetly touch my cage at all times under my jersey.
To my surprise, I was granted three releases during the week. All the same! The first to change the cage and which did not lead to anything other than putting back a cage more suitable for the beach and the sand. A caged has the right to dream!
On the second release, she simply offered to masturbate, side by side. She would have liked to let me come, but I offered to put my cage back on before I reached orgasm, to separate my pleasure from hers. I put my cage back, a little frustrated, but also happy. After a few hours everything was back to normal for me and I was happy to wear the cage again, and to have avoided the effect of post-coital depression.
But one of the evenings was particularly perfect. After a day of cuddling and loving her, after a one-on-one meal filled with caresses and complicity, we caressed each other, naked, like two lovebirds. I made him come with all the sweetness I could give him. She only released me from my cage when she was satisfied. And she could have overruled or let me take care of my own pleasure, but this time she wanted to take care of my orgasm, which she did with her hands, very gently. She could also just have made me believe it, use her Denial card at the last moment and demand my return to the chastity cage. I swear to you that I loved this moment and that I accepted with the greatest respect. A big thank you for all my efforts to make her happy during our stay. I put my cage back myself only the next morning when I woke up.
She will then have enjoyed another time, as far as I know! She also took cunnilingus the last evening under her dress in a quiet place, alcohol consumption and male chastity helping. A little quick as we should at home, but only for her! This trip is a more than unforgettable memory for our couple!
Little advice, salt water from the sea will very quickly rust cages and entry-level metal padlocks. Better to use a polycarbonate cage and these one-time use numbered plastic clips. This also has the merit of preventing my spouse from carrying the key on her at all times or worrying about a lost key. You also have to find a way to remove the sand that accumulates in the cage without access to a shower head. So remember to bring several numbered plastic clips. Also avoid wearing the chastity cage at the airport in a foreign country or your explanations would probably be misunderstood. Wait until you are at the hotel.
So the CMC reasoned over several days is exercised during the holidays and weekends here and there.
So here is our CMC as we apply it: occasionally, for fun and only when my spouse is willing to play her role as KH, without any real game of domination or frustration, for her pleasure first. Reasonably!
Have Fun!